It is, arguably, the most difficult thing in life. Any guesses what that might be? How about the loss of a loved one,
especially your spouse whom you’ve loved and lived with for your entire adult life?
It was November 04, 2024 that our KIA feature was, sadly,
R.I.P. Liz “Quasar” Avram, Kiado-Ryu Black Belt #46.
Today, August 04, 2025, Dean Avram, Quasar’s husband, gives an update on Quasar’s passing back on 27 October 2024.
The Black Belt Book of Life - Topic #16 - Not To But Through
In finding the mark and hitting it,
as we our goals pursue,
the key to raising the Cup is Not To But Through.
I can give you a six-word formula for success: Think things through - then follow through.
In martial arts, one of the keys to generating devastating power is penetrating the target, i.e., not focusing to the
target but rather through the target. When we strike at the front of a target, even though we may hit it, our strike
will have little effect because of its lack of depth. However, if rather than merely hitting the target, we project and
strike through it, our effective power will be greatly enhanced.